Power exchange in BDSM is a two-way street—built on mutual consent, trust, and respect. But too often, the conversation around rights and boundaries focuses solely on submissives. And while protecting submissives is essential, it’s equally important to recognize that Dominants also have needs, limits, and the right to be treated with care and consideration. That’s why I created The Dominant’s Bill of Rights—to name and…

These days, anyone can post about kink online or call themselves an educator. But just talking about BDSM doesn’t mean someone is teaching it in a responsible or respectful way. At Pink Kink, we believe being a kink educator means more than sharing tips or talking about scenes. It means teaching with care, using honest and respectful language, and always putting consent and safety first.…

Submissives are often seen as the ones who simply follow orders and serve, but that’s only part of the story—and honestly, it’s a pretty outdated one. A healthy BDSM dynamic isn’t just about obedience or doing what your Dominant says. It’s about connection, trust, communication, and mutual growth. Submission should never mean giving up your voice or your needs. Submissives deserve to feel safe, valued,…

Sometimes, I swear, arguing on social media is like trying to teach a fish how to ride a bicycle. It’s frustrating, exhausting, and ultimately pointless. But every once in a while, you see something so ridiculous that you just have to speak up. This time, it was an "educator" (and I’m using that term very loosely) who insisted that “non-consensual BDSM” is a real thing.…

There’s a phrase I hear all the time in the kink community: “I’ve been in the scene for X years.” It’s often said as a way to establish credibility, but here’s the hard truth—years in kink don’t automatically mean someone is experienced or knowledgeable. What truly matters is what you’ve done during those years. Have you actively engaged, learned, and grown? Or have you just…