December 14, 2024

Managing Jealousy and Insecurity in BDSM Relationships: My Journey and What I've Learned

Let’s be honest—jealousy and insecurity can pop up in any relationship, and BDSM dynamics are no different. In fact, they can feel even more intense because of the emotional depth and vulnerability that come with power exchange. But here’s the thing: it’s totally normal. What matters is how you deal with it. If you let jealousy fester, it can create tension, but if you address it head-on, it can actually strengthen your relationship. Continue Reading…

November 18, 2024

Why “Age is Just a Number” is Wrong, and Why That’s Okay

I’ve heard the phrase “age is just a number” so many times throughout my life. It’s meant to be an empowering message, suggesting that age doesn’t define us or our abilities. But as I’ve grown older, I’ve realized it’s not entirely accurate. Age isn’t just a number—it’s a collection of experiences, changes, and adaptations that come with the passage of time. And honestly, that’s not a bad thing. Continue Reading…