Gatekeeping in kink is defined as "restricting or limiting access to the lifestyle or community or invalidating someone's actions or feelings, usually based on personal bias and prejudice.” An example would be saying you can't be a dominant if you are female or you can't be a rope bunny if you are overweight. People who decide that their way to kink is the only way to kink are bad for the community. It invalidates people's lived experiences and it takes away people’s right to decide for themselves. Gatekeeping does nothing…

We interview Sir Ezra, Intimacy and BDSM Coach at House Of Algos Inc. and Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX, about his new book Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism. We talk about common practices, how to distinguish between ethical, consensual and erotic mindfucking and mindfucking that is not all three. We cover both the basics including fundamentals, safety guidelines and ethics. Sir Ezra breaks down where mindfucking ends and abuse begins. You will also get to hear hot and informative mindfucking stories that will…

Some kinks are viewed as forbidden by society’s standards and therefore are rarely talked about openly. Some are less taboo then they were in the past and some are more taboo then ever. But these kinks exist and so we are going to talk about them. What are they? Is it okay to object to them? Should we just accept that we may see these kinks in our public dungeons? There is so much to talk about so this will be a longer episode than usual. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com…

As part of Rara's birthday celebrations, Dara and Rara challenged each other to see who knew more about the other one. Join us as we play our very own twisted version of The Newlywed Game in front of a live studio audience. Play along and see how well you know us.

We get so many questions about trying to date when you are kinky so we decided to just do an episode about it. We talk about the best way to begin the process of looking for a kinky partner. We talk about our own adventures dating and what worked and what didn't and finish up with a discussion of several kinky dating sites. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com…