Category: Experiences

Exhibitionism and voyeurism are two sides of the same coin. Without someone to watch them, exhibitionists have nothing. And without someone willing to be watched, voyeurs are left with nothing to do. Rara, the...

It had been a super long time since either of us had gone through the BDSM Checklist and updated it with our currents likes and dislikes. We used the checklist that is available at...

When does masochism in BDSM become harmful for your mental health? We spoke to AJ, a kink and sexuality educator and therapist to answer this important question. To reach AJ – Ajcheyfitz@tamarapincus.com Visit us...

Frenzy is an experience that affects many new kinksters. You are finally getting to dip your toes into this kinky world that you have learned about and you are overwhelmed. You become consumed by...

Controlling orgasms is a fun way to add heat to your sex life and it’s a very common practice in D/s relationships. We talk about different ways to incorporate orgasm control into your life...

BDSM is a lot of fun but it comes with risks. If you are smart and experienced, then you have identified ways to minimize risks. But there is always the chance that things can...

Wax play is a form of temperature play in which wax is dripped onto your partner’s body. It may seem like a simple way to add some fun to your kinky play. However, before...

Drop is a term we hear a lot in BDSM. Technically drop is what happens to your body after you’ve drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during your...

High protocol is, in the BDSM community, is a code prescribing strict adherence to a pre-determined set of rules or etiquette that determines acceptable behavior for a submissive. Many romanticize high protocol as the...

Breakups are painful no matter what brings them about. When it’s a D/s relationship that ends it can add to the pain. Your routine is altered, you need to unlearn habits, and you may...