Generated by All in One SEO v4.9.10, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # Pink Kink Podcast Empowerment Through Education ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Blog](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/blog/) - December 14, 2024 Managing Jealousy and Insecurity in BDSM Relationships: My Journey and What I've Learned Let’s be honest—jealousy and insecurity can pop up in any relationship, and BDSM dynamics are no different. In fact, they can feel even more intense because of the emotional depth and vulnerability that come with power exchange. But here’s - [It’s Hard to Feel Playful When Everything Is Burning](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/its-hard-to-feel-playful-when-everything-is-burning/) - Lately it feels like we’re expected to keep living, loving, and playing as if the world isn’t actively on fire. ICE activity ramping up again. Women watching hard-won bodily autonomy get argued away like it’s theoretical. Queer and trans people talked about like problems to solve, bodies to regulate, identities to fix or correct. Another - [Submission Isn’t a Sport. Stop Keeping Score!](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/submission-isnt-a-sport-stop-keeping-score/) - I saw a post on Threads by someone who identifies as a Dominant, and it offered suggestions on how to increase a submissive’s pain tolerance. Honestly, it frustrated me. Not because pain tolerance itself is a bad thing, but because of what it implies - that enduring more pain somehow makes someone a “better” submissive. - [How Blood Play Taught Me Strength, Trust, and Pride](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/how-blood-play-taught-me-strength-trust-and-pride/) - Trigger Warning: This post discusses blood, needle play, and other forms of edge play. Disclaimer: This is a personal story about my relationship with blood play. It is not meant as a guide or instruction manual. Blood play carries real risks and should only be done with proper education, safety precautions, and consent. Blood play - [My 400 Needle Birthday Bash](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/my-400-needle-birthday-bash/) - It's Sunday and I’m sitting here feeling happy, tired, and still a little dazed from last night. It was a big moment for me, and now that I’ve had some time to catch my breath and reflect, I want to share the story of my 400 needle birthday scene. A lot went into preparing for - [She’s on Her Knees and It’s Still Feminist](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/shes-on-her-knees-and-its-still-feminist/) - The Album Cover That Got People Talking Sabrina Carpenter’s new album cover dropped and the internet exploded. She’s on all fours in a short black dress, being held by the hair by a man whose face we never see. The image is provocative, charged, and very clearly styled with a BDSM aesthetic in mind. The - [When Care Turns Controlling: Spotting Unethical Behavior in Age Play Dynamics](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/when-care-turns-controlling-spotting-unethical-behavior-in-age-play-dynamics/) - I knew something wasn’t right, but I didn’t know how to say it. We’d been in a CG/L dynamic for a few months, and at first, it felt warm and comforting. He doted on me, reminded me to eat, tucked me in at night—it all seemed like what a good Daddy would do. But little - [The Dominant’s Bill of Rights: Holding Power Responsibly](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/the-dominants-bill-of-rights-holding-power-responsibly/) - Power exchange in BDSM is a two-way street—built on mutual consent, trust, and respect. But too often, the conversation around rights and boundaries focuses solely on submissives. And while protecting submissives is essential, it’s equally important to recognize that Dominants also have needs, limits, and the right to be treated with care and consideration. That’s - [The Ethical Educator Manifesto: What We Stand For](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/the-ethical-educator-manifesto-what-we-stand-for/) - These days, anyone can post about kink online or call themselves an educator. But just talking about BDSM doesn’t mean someone is teaching it in a responsible or respectful way. At Pink Kink, we believe being a kink educator means more than sharing tips or talking about scenes. It means teaching with care, using honest - [More Than Obedience: A Submissive’s Right to Respect, Growth and Fulfillment](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/more-than-obedience-a-submissives-right-to-respect-growth-and-fulfillment/) - Submissives are often seen as the ones who simply follow orders and serve, but that’s only part of the story—and honestly, it’s a pretty outdated one. A healthy BDSM dynamic isn’t just about obedience or doing what your Dominant says. It’s about connection, trust, communication, and mutual growth. Submission should never mean giving up your - [Non-Consensual BDSM Doesn’t Exist (And Yes, I Had to Argue About It)](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/non-consensual-bdsm-doesnt-exist-and-yes-i-had-to-argue-about-it/) - Sometimes, I swear, arguing on social media is like trying to teach a fish how to ride a bicycle. It’s frustrating, exhausting, and ultimately pointless. But every once in a while, you see something so ridiculous that you just have to speak up. This time, it was an "educator" (and I’m using that term very - [Years in Kink vs Experience: Time Alone Doesn’t Equal Knowledge](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/years-in-kink-vs-experience-time-alone-doesnt-equal-knowledge/) - There’s a phrase I hear all the time in the kink community: “I’ve been in the scene for X years.” It’s often said as a way to establish credibility, but here’s the hard truth—years in kink don’t automatically mean someone is experienced or knowledgeable. What truly matters is what you’ve done during those years. Have - [Why “Age is Just a Number” is Wrong, and Why That’s Okay](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/why-age-is-just-a-number-is-wrong-and-why-thats-okay/) - I’ve heard the phrase “age is just a number” so many times throughout my life. It’s meant to be an empowering message, suggesting that age doesn’t define us or our abilities. But as I’ve grown older, I’ve realized it’s not entirely accurate. Age isn’t just a number—it’s a collection of experiences, changes, and adaptations that - [Managing Jealousy and Insecurity in BDSM Relationships: My Journey and What I've Learned](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/managing-jealousy-and-insecurity-in-bdsm-relationships-my-journey-and-what-ive-learned/) - Let’s be honest—jealousy and insecurity can pop up in any relationship, and BDSM dynamics are no different. In fact, they can feel even more intense because of the emotional depth and vulnerability that come with power exchange. But here’s the thing: it’s totally normal. What matters is how you deal with it. If you let ## Pages - [Home](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/) - The podcast that dives into the alluring and unconventional side of kink. In a world filled with misconceptions, Princess Rara and Dara, the Electro Kahleesi are here to dismantle stereotypes and eliminate the stigma surrounding the intriguing world of kink. - [Support Us](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/support-us/) - Support us Pink Kink runs off of your love and devotion. One of the best things you can do is tell a friend about us, or tell a lot of people about us! Rate and review on iTunes and help other people find the podcast too! 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Connect with us at - www.pinkkinkpodcast.com pinkkinkpodcast@gmail.com Twitter - @pinkkinkpodcast Instagram - @pinkkinkpodcast Fetlife - Pinkkinkpodcast Connect with Princess Rara at Twitter - @theprincessrara Instagram - @theprincessrara Fetlife - PrincessRara Connect with Electro_kahleesi at Instagram - [Episode 2 - BDSM Terminology Part 1](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-2-bdsm-terminology-part-1/) - Curious about BDSM? Here's part one of a glossary of terms that will give you the vocabulary you need to ask questions and understand the kink lifestyle. _______________________________________Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Twitter - PinkKinkPodcast Instagram - PinkKinkPodcast FetLife - Pink KinkPodcast - [Episode 3 - BDSM Terminology Part 2](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-3-bdsm-terminology-part-2/) - We continue discussing common terms used in the BDSM lifestyle. Check out our social media accounts: Pinkkinkpodcast at Instagram, Twitter and Fetlife Contact us: Pinkkinkpodcast@gmail.com - [Episode 4 - Kinky Scenes](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-4-kinky-scenes/) - Scenes. A common BDSM term. But what kind of scenes? What sorts of kinky fun can you get into? Listen and learn about a wide variety of scenes that many kinksters enjoy. Check out our social media accounts: Pinkkinkpodcast at Instagram, Twitter, FetLife and Facebook Contact us: Pinkkinkpodcast@gmail.com - [Episode 5 - FetLife: Like Facebook, but run by kinksters](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-5-fetlife-like-facebook-but-run-by-kinksters/) - If you are into kink, you've probably heard about FetLife. They call themselves the Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community. Like Facebook, but run by kinksters like you and me. Some people love Fet, some people hate it, but everyone has an opinion. Especially us, so listen to our opinions and advice - [Episode 6 - Munches](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-6-munches/) - You need to go to a munch. That’s almost always the first piece of advice given to someone when they begin exploring BDSM. Munches are a great way to meet people, ask questions, and be yourself without worrying about keeping your desires a secret any longer. Munches are also a great way to get your - [Episode 7 - Dungeons and Play Parties](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-7-dungeons-and-play-parties/) - BDSM Dungeon. Those words cause many a kinkster to shiver; some out of excitement and some out of fear. Listen as we talk about what actually happens at a dungeon and make it less intimidating. Learn about what you might see, what you should wear and how you should act whether you are at a - [Bonus - PinkKinkChallenge - The Scottish Accent](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bonus-pinkkinkchallenge-the-scottish-accent/) - We challenged our listeners in Episode 7 to melt Dara with their best Scottish accents. Listen as she hears them for the first time and how easily she melts. If you wish to send us your best Scottish accent (or a British accent for Rara) then go to http://pinkkinkpodcast.com/contact-us/ and click on the link to - [Episode 8 - BDSM Negotiations](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-8-bdsm-negotiations/) - Negotiation is a cornerstone of successful BDSM play. It is the process of working out what each of you enthusiastically agrees to do or to avoid when you play together. Negotiation can be fun -- and even hot. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us out at Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast Support us patreon.com/pinkkinkpodcast - [Episode 9 - Aftercare](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-9-aftercare/) - Aftercare is, very simply, the time you and your partner take after play time to recover and also to see to each other’s emotional and physical needs. It is doing whatever those participating in the scene need to get back to baseline or better. Learn what it is, why you need it and the different - [Episode 10 - Red Flags](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-10-red-flags/) - In order to maintain a healthy relationship, especially within the BDSM community, you need to be aware of signs of unhealthy behavior. Of course, these red flags can appear in any kind of relationship–but it’s extra important when you’re in a power exchange relationship or picking a play partner and risking injury. Whether you are - [Bonus - A Night in a BDSM Dungeon](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bonus-a-night-in-a-bdsm-dungeon/) - A rare Pink Moon has made an appearance and we couldn't let it slip by without celebrating. Therefore we offer this special bonus episode offering a glimpse inside a private BDSM play party. Enjoy listening to interviews with kinksters ranging from new to experienced. We even have recorded a needle scene with Rara bottoming for - [Episode 11 - Domination/submission](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-11-domination-submission/) - Domination and submission. It's what everybody thinks about when you think about BDSM. Many people have preconceived notions about how D/s works. They get an idea in their head of what is right and what is wrong. And we’re here to tell you that probably a lot of what you think and believe about D/s - [Episode 12 - FemDomme](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-12-femdomme/) - FemDomme, or Female Dominance, refers to a BDSM scene or relationship in which a female-identifying person is a dominant partner or top partner. While there are many similarities to a male dominated D/s, there are also differences and plenty of misconceptions. We talk about what it's like being a FemDomme, the difficulties we run into, - [Episode 13 - Busting BDSM Myths](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-13-busting-bdsm-myths/) - Whether you are a new or experienced kinkster, you have probably run into a lot of assumptions about the lifestyle. Some may be true, but there are also a lot of myths. In this episode we debunk myths about the lifestyle in general as well as those specific to Doms and subs. We can't tackle - [Episode 14 - Caregivers/littles](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-14-caregivers-littles/) - This episode is all about Caregivers and littles. This topic is near and dear to our hearts because we both identify in the little category. Caregiver/littles are very misunderstand, even within the BDSM lifestyle. So it's important for us to explain what the dynamic is, destigmatize this dynamic, bust all the negative myths about it - [Bonus - A Shocking Teaser](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bonus-a-shocking-teaser/) - When Rara turned her back to Top in an impact scene, Dara saw her opportunity to convert more kinksters to "TeamLightning." This bonus episode features interviews with experienced electro participants and first time electro participants. In addition, eavesdrop during an electro scene with Dara and one of her favorite electro bottoms. - [Episode 15 - BDSM is NOT All About Sex](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-15-bdsm-is-not-all-about-sex/) - Rara gets on her soapbox to discuss the assumption that BDSM is only about sex and sexual things. Hint - It's not. Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Sponsored by www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact Jae at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Visit us at - [Episode 16 - The Good, The Bad and The Ugly - Fictional Portrayals of BDSM](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-16-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly-fictional-portrayals-of-bdsm/) - There is a lot of disagreement about how fiction portrays BDSM. Fifty Shades is one of the most talked about fictional portrayals and probably the most controversial. Some people recommend watching the movie Secretary instead. Even Netflix has jumped on the BDSM bandwagon with their series Bonding. We decided to explore all three to see - [Episode 17 - The Explosion of Kink Tok](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-17-the-explosion-of-kink-tok/) - Many kinksters began to utilize social media apps to educate and inform about a variety of standard kink concepts such as negotiations, safety and consent. Tik Tok in particular really exploded with what kinksters call Kink Tok. We have even started our own Tik Tok account - thepinkkinkpodcast. Several Kink Tok content creators have really - [Episode 18 - Our Favorite Toys](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-18-our-favorite-toys/) - We talk all about our favorite toys. Photos and videos of the toys can be seen on Instagram and Tik Tok. Links for Rara's favorites - Leather Claw Gloves, Fire Hose Paddle, & Slapper - SireDonLeather.com Heart Shaped Spiked Paddle - Tiny Terror Toys on Etsy Boxing Hand Wrapping Inner Gloves - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B079JYMXKT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_JJFDTYSC18GWS22T78DD?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 Stapler - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LWC10SL/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_5CQHDY92MSQMCYAQJ65C?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 - [Episode 19 - Pet Play and Furries](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-19-pet-play-and-furries/) - We are absolutely fascinated by pet play and furries so we talked to experts to learn more about this kink. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Sponsor - www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact Jae at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Check - [Episode 20 - Kink in Public](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-20-kink-in-public/) - People in leashes in grocery stores. Kink at Pride. So much has been in the news lately about whether kink is appropriate in public and if so, how much? We discuss our thoughts on the matter, which not surprisingly, are very different. We don't have answers but hopefully we will get a discussion started on - [Episode 21 - Risk Profiles](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-21-risk-profiles/) - Kink has dangers. Dangers to our social standing, to our health, to our sanity. Anyone who tells you that BDSM is “totally safe” is probably lying, or is too ignorant to play with. But something being risky doesn’t automatically make it bad. After all, people bungee jump and sky dive and swim with sharks. It - [Episode 22 - Rope Bondage](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-22-rope-bondage/) - Rope bondage has gained in popularity as more people have come to admire the artistry that can be created with rope. But rope is considered edge play because of the risks involved. We speak with Simple_Beauty, an accomplished rope top, and Rara's rigger. We talk about why Simple Beauty loves rope, the different kinds of - [Episode 23 - Polyamory and Kink](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-23-polyamory-and-kink/) - Kink within polyamory relationships provide extra challenges. How do you incorporate D/s rules into your other relationships? What do you do if one partner doesn't like bruises and another does? We talk about all this and more as we try to navigate the challenge of meshing two lifestyles together. Polyamory resource - Tik Tok: Two - [Episode 24 - Long Distance and D/s](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-24-long-distance-and-d-s/) - Many people believe that long distance D/s relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. But - [Episode 25 - Consent](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-25-consent/) - Consent. It is the foundation of BDSM. Without consent, what we do is nothing more than abuse. We discuss how best to ensure you have consent in a scene. But there are multiple ways to consent so we also talk about which ways are more effective than others. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - - [Episode 26 - Erotic Hypnosis](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-26-erotic-hypnosis/) - Hypnosis has been used for centuries to induce dreams, recall memories, and transform habits. So it makes sense that it could also be used to elicit pleasure. We speak with Mr. Taqtiks, a certified hypnotist, to learn all about how to use hynposis in your BDSM play. Follow Mr. Taqtiks on Fetlife at https://fetlife.com/users/110316 Visit - [Episode 27 - Difficulty Accepting Your Kinks](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-27-difficulty-accepting-your-kinks/) - TW: CNC/Rape Play It is sometimes hard to understand why we enjoy some of the kinks we have. Whether it's being a sadist and wanting to hurt someone, dress up diapers and using a bottle and pacifier, or even wanting to participate in rape role play, some of our kinks are a little more difficult - [Episode 28 - Kink is Not A Competition](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-28-kink-is-not-a-competition/) - Whether you are a longtime member of the kink world or a newbie just exploring, you may have noticed something a bit concerning. Kink often has an issue with elitism. In the kink community, there is often a sense of hierarchy: what kinks are the best kinks... and the kinkier, the better. But this competition - [Episode 29 - It's Dara's Birthday and It's Electric](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-29-its-daras-birthday-and-its-electric/) - It's Dara's birthday and we are celebrating with an entire episode all about her favorite subject - Electro! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com - [Episode 30 - Fire in the Hole](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-30-fire-in-the-hole/) - Fire play is an incredibly sensual play involving not just the fire but touch too. It is obviously edge play so we bring in an expert to talk about the different kinds of fire play and safety. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You - [Episode 31 - The Problem With Labels](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-31-the-problem-with-labels/) - Throughout our lives, people attach labels to us, and those labels reflect and affect how others think about our identities as well as how we think about ourselves. That said, we've gotten in the habit of over labeling things, situations, and people, which has ultimately boxed us into these predetermined beliefs about what that particular - [Episode 32 - Things That Go Ouch (Impact) and It's Rara's Birthday](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-32-things-that-go-ouch-impact-and-its-raras-birthday/) - This time it's Rara's birthday that we are celebrating so we are devoting the episode to one of Rara's favorite subjects - Impact. An entire episode devoted to all things thuddy and stingy. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him - [Episode 33 - Mentoring in BDSM](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-33-mentoring-in-bdsm/) - A mentor is a person with specialized knowledge whom you may enlist to educate and motivate you. But is a mentor necessary in the kink lifestyle. We speak with Moxie, who in addition to being a Bootblacking titleholder, teaches a class on Mentoring in BDSM. We talk about how having a mentor can help, what - [Episode 34 - Dating While Kinky](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-34-dating-while-kinky/) - We get so many questions about trying to date when you are kinky so we decided to just do an episode about it. We talk about the best way to begin the process of looking for a kinky partner. We talk about our own adventures dating and what worked and what didn't and finish up - [Bonus - Our "Newlywed" Challenge](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bonus-our-newlywed-challenge/) - As part of Rara's birthday celebrations, Dara and Rara challenged each other to see who knew more about the other one. Join us as we play our very own twisted version of The Newlywed Game in front of a live studio audience. Play along and see how well you know us. - [Episode 35 - Controversial and Taboo Kinks](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-35-controversial-and-taboo-kinks/) - Some kinks are viewed as forbidden by society’s standards and therefore are rarely talked about openly. Some are less taboo then they were in the past and some are more taboo then ever. But these kinks exist and so we are going to talk about them. What are they? Is it okay to object to - [Episode 36 - Mindf*#$ing Mindfully](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-36-mindfing-mindfully/) - We interview Sir Ezra, Intimacy and BDSM Coach at House Of Algos Inc. and Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX, about his new book Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism. We talk about common practices, how to distinguish between ethical, consensual and erotic mindfucking and mindfucking that is not all - [Episode 37 - Gatekeeping in Kink](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-37-gatekeeping-in-kink/) - Gatekeeping in kink is defined as "restricting or limiting access to the lifestyle or community or invalidating someone's actions or feelings, usually based on personal bias and prejudice.” An example would be saying you can't be a dominant if you are female or you can't be a rope bunny if you are overweight. People who - [Episode 38 - YKINMKATOK](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-38-ykinmkatok/) - Your kink is not my kink and that's okay. It's the principal we in the kink community are supposed to live by. But do we actually or do we found ourselves judging instead? And what about people who use YKINMKATOK to try to justify abuse? It's never simple when it comes to kink and judgement. - [Episode 39 - #DisabledandKinkyAF](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-39-disabledandkinkyaf/) - When we think of kink including floggers, wax play, or restraints, we generally don’t include disabled people in that image. And why don't we? Being disabled shouldn't cut you out of the kink scene. For many people with disabilities, BDSM is just one facet of life in which they have learned to make adjustments so - [Episode 40 - Is Submission a Gift?](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-40-is-submission-a-gift/) - We often hear in the kink lifestyle that submission is a gift. But is it? You can't take a gift back but you can rescind your submission. And if submission is a gift, then what about dominance? Should you earn someone's submission? Should you earn their dominance? We have a very lively discussion answering these - [Episode 41 - What We Are Thankful For](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-41-what-we-are-thankful-for/) - We couldn't let Thanksgiving pass without sharing all the kinky things we are grateful for. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK - [Episode 42 - Vetting](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-42-vetting/) - What exactly is vetting and how does it pertain to BDSM? What are some questions to ask during the vetting process? We answer these questions and so much more. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Sponsored by - visit www.jyiphoto.com for all your vanilla and kinky photo needs. You can also contact him at www.fetlife.com/iso800 Affiliates - - [Episode 43 - Breath Play](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-43-breath-play/) - WARNING - Any activity which constricts or blocks a person’s air or blood flow comes with risk, and can never be 100 percent safe. There’s always a chance of something going wrong, and anyone who takes part in this kind of play needs to be aware of this prior to engaging. DO NOT try anything - [Episode 44 - We Answer Reddit Questions](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-44-we-answer-reddit-questions/) - We thought it would be fun to answer questions asked on the BDSM Advice subReddit. And we had so much fun that we think this will become a regular thing. If you come across some questions that you would like to share, please send us the link. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use - [Episode 45 - Kink Resolutions](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-45-kink-resolutions/) - It's the end of another year. 2021 has had some ups and downs but 2022 is hopefully looking brighter. We had to end the year with our own kinky New Year's resolutions. Think we can make them possible? Only time will tell. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% - [Episode 46 - Playing With The Five Senses](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-46-playing-with-the-five-senses/) - Playing with your five senses is a commonly used practice in BDSM that makes us focus on our other senses by depriving us or concentrating on one or more senses. For example, blindfolds are commonly used to deny us sight, but that forces us to rely on touch, smell, hearing and taste to guess what - [Episode 47 - Making Kink Your Profession](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-47-making-kink-your-profession/) - Many kinskters have wondered if they could turn their love of all things kink into a career that actually pays the bills. While it is possible, it is a lot of work promoting yourself, finding clients, and then maintaining the clientele. We talk to three hard working kinksters who have made it happen. Switch Veronika - [Episode 48 - Kinking Under The Influence](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-48-kinking-under-the-influence/) - Does alcohol and BDSM mix? What about drugs and BDSM? Is it the same if it is prescription medicine? This was a hot topic on social media recently and an important one that we wanted to discuss. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use - [Episode 49 - Age Play vs Age Regression](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-49-age-play-vs-age-regression/) - Age Regression and Age Play are two very similar but very different headspaces to be in. They use similar language and people tend to use them interchangeably. This causes a lot of confusion as evidenced by the recent "kerfuffle" on social media. Can you consent in little space? Can you be sexual in little space? - [Episode 50 - Punishments/Rewards in D/s](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-50-punishments-rewards-in-d-s/) - In BDSM the letter D represents Domination but it also represents Discipline. Some people believe that means rules and consequences for breaking those rules need to be a part of their dynamic. But not everyone feels rules and punishments are necessary. We discuss the reasoning behind both camps as well as offer ideas for different - [Episode 51 - Pain on Purpose](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-51-pain-on-purpose/) - Physical pain is a common feature of BDSM. Many seek out pain through impact, knives, needles and more. But the question of why looms over masochists. Why would someone seek out pain? Why do they enjoy pain? Why does it turn them on? We were very fortunate to talk with Leigh Cowart, author of "Hurts - [Episode 52 - Celebrating Our First Year](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-52-celebrating-our-first-year/) - It's hard to believe Pink Kink has been around for 1 full year! Happy anniversary to us! To celebrate we have a super sized episode filled with our favorite moments, listener requested moments and some new stuff. The episode is guaranteed to make you laugh so be prepared for all the fun. Visit us at - [Episode 53 - Platonic Kink](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-53-platonic-kink/) - People often ask which kinks can be non-sexual and the honest answer is almost all of them. We discuss exactly what platonic kink is and how you are probably already doing some. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% - [Episode 54 - Our Adventures at Winter Fire](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-54-our-adventures-at-winter-fire/) - Hang with us as we talk all about our adventures at Winter Fire. We give you behind the scenes at this amazing kink convention. We talk with others who attended. If you weren't able to attend, then this is the next best thing. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% - [Episode 55 - The Importance of Community](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-55-the-importance-of-community/) - Is being a part of the BDSM community necessary? Can you be a "true" kinkster if you aren't involved in your community? Are BDSM communities beneficial or harmful? We debate these questions and more. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to - [Episode 56 - The Many Different Feet We Meet](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-56-the-many-different-feet-we-meet/) - One of the most popular fetishes (one in seven people appear to have this fantasy) but surprisingly one of the most stigmatized, is podophilia, otherwise known as a foot fetish. We bring in Miss Marla Jane, a pro Domme who does foot sessions, and her husband, who has a foot fetish, to discuss foot domination. Visit - [Episode 57 - Collars](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/episode-57-collars/) - You probably have heard about BDSM collars. But what exactly are they, what do they mean and why do people wear them? Are they like pet collars? We answer all these questions and more. Mentioned in the episode - Rad Babe Creations - https://www.etsy.com/shop/RadBabesCreations Elegantly Owned - https://www.etsy.com/shop/ElegantlyOwned Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com - [Ethical Bratting - Episode 58](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/ethical-bratting-episode-58/) - Within BDSM, the label brat has become associated with being rebellious, an antagonist, refusing, whining and many other negative stereotypes. But the reality is that bratting is actually a spectrum ranging from sassy to fighting back. Many kinksters like a little extra attitude in their partner and bratting ethically can add extra fun to your - [Breeding, Pregnancy and More - Episode 59](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/breeding-pregnancy-and-more-episode-59/) - You probably have heard about breeding fetishes but did you know about pregnancy fetishes? Or lactation fetishes? Have you heard about hucows? We cover the whole spectrum of these often misunderstood fetishes. - [Switches - Episode 60](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/switches-episode-60/) - Dara and Rara both identify as switches. But as with everything else, their switch personas are different. That is because switching is a spectrum and there are a multitude of ways to incorporate switching into your play. We talk about what switching means to us and different ways to bring out your inner switch. Visit - [Honorifics - Episode 61](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/honorifics-episode-61/) - Honorifics are an important part of many people's identity and relationship. But when it comes to honorifics in the lifestyle, there are as many different possibilities as there are opinions on when and how to use honorifics. There has even been debate on social media as to the proper use of honorifics. Join us as - [Answering More Reddit Questions - Episode 62](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/answering-more-reddit-questions-episode-62/) - We thought we would introduce our new Pink Kink subreddit by answering some more questions from Reddit. Check us out at r/PinkKinkPodcast. Ask questions, share stories, and don't forget to send questions our way to be included in future Answer Reddit Questions episodes. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save - [BDSM and the Law - Episode 63](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bdsm-and-the-law-episode-63/) - DISCLAIMER: The information provided in this episode does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal advice; instead, all information and content in this episode is for general informational purposes only. Millions of adults participate in consensual, mutually agreed upon kink. But is any of what we do actually legal? Can you consent to a - [Service Submission - Episode 64](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/service-submission-episode-64/) - A common label in the lifestyle is service sub. But what is a service sub? What does it mean to serve? Service submission is a lot more complicated than people realize. We discuss exactly what is meant by service, the different types of service and why people would want to serve. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com - [Medical Roleplay - Episode 65](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/medical-roleplay-episode-65/) - Medical roleplay involving medical scenarios, procedures and practices is a very common and popular kink. We see it everywhere from the "sexy nurse" outfits to playing doctor. No experience is necessary and neither is elaborate equipment. Your imagination is your only limit. We offer ideas for ways to incorporate medical roleplay into your kink life - [How To Be a Better Bottom - Episode 66](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/how-to-be-a-better-bottom-episode-66/) - Common questions we hear include "how can I make my scenes last longer?" and "how can I take more pain in my scenes?" There are things that you can do to work on your bottoming skills which will definitely improve your scenes. We talk about scene communication and body awareness and others things you can - [BDSM Breakups - Episode 67](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bdsm-breakups-episode-67/) - Breakups are painful no matter what brings them about. When it's a D/s relationship that ends it can add to the pain. Your routine is altered, you need to unlearn habits, and you may have to deal with seeing your partner at an event and possibly with a new partner. We discuss the process of - [High Protocol - Episode 68](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/high-protocol-episode-68/) - High protocol is, in the BDSM community, is a code prescribing strict adherence to a pre-determined set of rules or etiquette that determines acceptable behavior for a submissive. Many romanticize high protocol as the thing to aim for in D/s relationships. So what is it exactly and how does it differ from other types? Is - [Dealing With Drop - Episode 69](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/dealing-with-drop-episode-69/) - Drop is a term we hear a lot in BDSM. Technically drop is what happens to your body after you've drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during your scenes. It's a term typically associated with submissives but anyone can experience drop after a scene, including Tops. How exactly does - [Wax Play - Episode 70](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/wax-play-episode-70/) - Wax play is a form of temperature play in which wax is dripped onto your partner's body. It may seem like a simple way to add some fun to your kinky play. However, before engaging in wax play you need to know what you are doing. We talk about how to play with wax safely - [When Scenes Go Wrong - Episode 71](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/when-scenes-go-wrong-episode-71/) - BDSM is a lot of fun but it comes with risks. If you are smart and experienced, then you have identified ways to minimize risks. But there is always the chance that things can go wrong. They can be small things or really big things and everyone, Top or bottom, should be prepared to deal - [Orgasm Control - Episode 72](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/orgasm-control-episode-72/) - Controlling orgasms is a fun way to add heat to your sex life and it's a very common practice in D/s relationships. We talk about different ways to incorporate orgasm control into your life and the many surprising benefits of orgasm control. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% - [Frenzy - Episode 73](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/frenzy-episode-73/) - Frenzy is an experience that affects many new kinksters. You are finally getting to dip your toes into this kinky world that you have learned about and you are overwhelmed. You become consumed by your desire to do it all, even to the point of neglecting all other concerns, even safety concerns. We share stories - [Healthy Hurting - Episode 74](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/healthy-hurting-episode-74/) - When does masochism in BDSM become harmful for your mental health? We spoke to AJ, a kink and sexuality educator and therapist to answer this important question. To reach AJ - Ajcheyfitz@tamarapincus.com Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% - [We Filled Out The BDSM Checklist - Episode 75](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/we-filled-out-the-bdsm-checklist-episode-75/) - It had been a super long time since either of us had gone through the BDSM Checklist and updated it with our current likes and dislikes. We used the checklist that is available at pinkkinkpodcast.com on the Resources page. Join us as we go through the list, share stories, and see once again how different - [Exhibitionism and Voyeurism - Episode 76](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/exhibitionism-and-voyeurism-episode-76/) - Exhibitionism and voyeurism are two sides of the same coin. Without someone to watch them, exhibitionists have nothing. And without someone willing to be watched, voyeurs are left with nothing to do. Rara, the exhibitionist and Dara, the voyeur, talk about how these kinks work for them and ways to include them in a D/s - [Fantasy vs Reality - Episode 77](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/fantasy-vs-reality-episode-77/) - The recent popularity of things like 50 Shades and 365 has created more interest in kink. Helping people understand what we do is great, but these works of fiction have created another problem by blurring the lines between fantasy and reality. In this episode, we talk about the differences between what the media portrays BDSM - [We Watched How to Build a Sex Room - Episode 78](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/we-watched-how-to-build-a-sex-room-episode-78/) - When we saw that Netflix had a new show titled "How to Build a Sex Room" we knew that we would have to watch. And since we have opinions, we knew we would have to share our thoughts, good and bad, on the show. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to - [The Importance of Reputation in BDSM - Episode 79](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-importance-of-reputation-in-bdsm-episode-79/) - We talk about why your reputation is everything within the BDSM community. We discuss how having a bad reputation can hurt you and how a good reputation can benefit you. We even give tips on how to get that good reputation. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on - [Service Topping and Bottoming - Episode 80](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/service-topping-and-bottoming-episode-80/) - The term "in service" is something kinksters are very familiar with. But did you know you can Top or bottom in service to someone? In this episode we explain exactly what service Topping and bottoming is and how it differs from typical Topping and bottoming. We also set off our Patreon Membership Drive in honor - [Humiliation - Episode 81](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/humiliation-episode-81/) - It's Dara's birthday episode so she got to chose the topic and she picked Humiliation. It is one of the kinks she has and wants to explore more. We talk about exactly what a humiliation kink, the importance of boundaries and consent when doing humiliation scenes, and what Dara has agreed to do if we - [Fear Play - Episode 82](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/fear-play-episode-82/) - This week we are talking about Fear Play - what it is, why do we enjoy this type of play, and we give you ideas on how to incorporate fear into your scenes. Because fear play falls into the category called "edge play” because of the high physical or psychological risk, we also go over - [Praise Kink - Episode 83](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/praise-kink-episode-83/) - It's Rara's birthday episode so she chose to discuss Praise Kink. Also known as affirmation play, praise kink is growing in popularity. You may think that it's an easy thing to include praise in your scenes or dynamic, but Praise Kink is so much more than just saying thank your or complimenting your partner. We - [The Joy of Submission - Episode 84](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-joy-of-submission-episode-84/) - Being a submissive is an amazing and wonderful thing but sometimes it can be difficult to explain just why it is amazing and wonderful. In this episode we go through all the benefits of being a submissive. We also talk about some of the potential pitfalls of your submission. Even if you are not a - [Answering BDSM Questions - Episode 85](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/answering-bdsm-questions-episode-85/) - In this episode we answer questions that we received from listeners and found on social media. If you would like to ask us a question, send us a message through our email or through social media. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code - [Subspace - Episode 86](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/subspace-episode-86/) - We finally devote an entire episode to the subject of subspace. What is it? What does it look like? How can I achieve it? We answer all these questions and more in our deep dive into subspace. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use - [BDSM Contracts - Episode 87](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bdsm-contracts-episode-87/) - Are BDSM Contracts a requirement for a dynamic? Why should I have a contract? What should be included in a contract? We answer these questions and much more in this episode. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on - [How We Dominate - Episode 88](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/how-we-dominate-episode-88/) - We share how we dominate. What are our dominating styles? What do we look for in a submissive? What kind of rules and tasks do we like to include in our dynamics? What would be a deal breaker? We answer these and so many more questions. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code - [Debunking TikTok Misinformation - Episode 89](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/debunking-tiktok-misinformation-episode-89/) - Tik Tok, specifically Kink Tok, has become the newest way for kinksters to learn about BDSM. Unfortunately, not all the information presented is accurate. In fact, some is downright dangerous. We go through some of the worst we have come across and hopefully clear some things up. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use - [Demo Topping - Episode 90](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/demo-topping-episode-90/) - Rara and Dara both have talked about being Demo Tops at events. But what exactly is a Demo Top? How does that differ from other types of Topping? They answer these questions and more in this episode. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use - [Safewords vs Plain Language - Episode 91](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/safewords-vs-plain-language-episode-91/) - Some people think no and stop are safewords while others call it plain language. So which is it? Are they the same or different? We discuss this as well as go into depth about communicating in a scene. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com - [What We Are Thankful For This Year - Episode 92](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/what-we-are-thankful-for-this-year-episode-92/) - It's that time of the year when we express our gratitude for so many things relating to the podcast. Join us for an episode of thankfulness and laughter. This episode is sponsored by Manscaped. Get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code PINKKINK at MANSCAPED.com! #ad #manscapedpod Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code - [Pervertables - Episode 93](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/pervertables-episode-93/) - Purchasing kink toys can be expensive and not everyone has the budget or even the desire to spend that much money. Some very creative people have found kink uses for everyday items - what we call pervertables. In this episode we explain exactly what pervertables are and give you lots of ideas of pervertables you - [Toxic Dominants - Episode 94](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/toxic-dominants-episode-94/) - Toxic Dominants. They are the ones we always warn new submissives against. But what exactly are the signs of a toxic dom? What things scream red flag? We go over this and share stories from our own experience and others. This episode is sponsored by Manscaped. Get 20% OFF @manscape + Free Shipping with promo - [Toxic Submissives - Episode 95](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/toxic-submissives-episode-95/) - This week we turn our focus to the toxicity that can happen on the other side of the slash. Yes, toxic submissives exist and they can cause just as much emotional and mental damage as toxic doms. What are the signs of a toxic sub and what should you know in order to avoid becoming - [Our New Year's Resolutions - Episode 96](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/our-new-years-resolutions-episode-96/) - It's that time of the year - time to make New Year's Resolutions. First we look back at last years resolutions and see how much we have accomplished. Then we set some new resolutions for 2023. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code - [Adventures at Naughty Noel - Episode 97](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/adventures-at-naughty-noel-episode-97/) - Join us as we talk about Rara's adventures at Naughty Noel, a hotel takeover kink convention. Rara shares stories and we listen to interviews from kinksters who were there. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order - [Needles, Sutures and Staples, Oh My - Episode 98](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/needles-sutures-and-staples-oh-my-episode-98/) - We have put together the perfect episode for a Friday the 13th - an episode about sharp pointy things that draw blood. But a very important warning - The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only. We want to give you some basic information about sharps play in the hopes that it - [Consensual Non-Consent - Episode 99](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/consensual-non-consent-episode-99/) - Consensual Non-Consent (otherwise known as CNC) has quickly gained popularity however there are many misconceptions about this type of play. We start with correcting the myths and then go on to explain exactly what it is. We also give you ideas of how to incorporate CNC into your dynamic. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - - [It's Our Bloopers Episode - Episode 100](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/its-our-bloopers-episode-episode-100/) - Hard to believe but we have reached a milestone - 100 episodes!! People have been asking us for a blooper special and boy do we deliver. This episode should come with a warning label that you may hurt yourself laughing so hard. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% - [Evolutionary History of Kink - Episode 101](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/evolutionary-history-of-kink-episode-101/) - Dara has been wanting to do an episode on the history of kink for awhile. She is finally getting her chance to share all the research she did about kinky mf'ers going back centuries. Be prepared to be wowed. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) - [Asexuality and Kink with Evie Lupine - Episode 102](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/asexuality-and-kink-with-evie-lupine-episode-102/) - Being asexual and kinky seems like an oxymoron. But it really isn't if you think about it and more and more asexuals are discovering the fun of kink. We were lucky enough to have Evie Lupine join us to talk about why the kink community appeals to many asexuals and answer our questions on what - [Adventures at Winter Fire 2023 Part 1 - Episode 103](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/adventures-at-winter-fire-2023-part-1-episode-103/) - It's that time of the year again - Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, a weekend long hotel takeover. Winter Fire offers classes all day and parties all night. This year was a little bit different because we both were presenters which made for even more adventures. Join us as we give you a behind the scenes - [Adventures at Winter Fire Part 2 - Episode 104](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/adventures-at-winter-fire-part-2-episode-104/) - Hang with us while we continue to share stories and adventures from Dark Odyssey Winter Fire 2023. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and free shipping on orders over $50) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to - [Playing With Your Food is a Good Thing - Episode 105](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/playing-with-your-food-is-a-good-thing-episode-105/) - Sploshing brings a whole new meaning to playing with your food. Think licking chocolate syrup off your partner or painting your body with whip cream. Your only limits are your imagination. Join us as we talk about why people love this kink and how you can incorporate food into your scenes. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com - [Adventures of Traveling with Kink Toys - Episode 106](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/adventures-of-traveling-with-kink-toys-episode-106/) - Want to fly to visit your long distance sub and bring your toys? Been ordered by your Dom to wear a butt plug while traveling? What's the best way to deal with TSA? We brought in Lynn, a former TSA agent to share tips for traveling with toys. We discuss which toys can go in - [Primal Play - Episode 107](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/primal-play-episode-107/) - A lot of people identify as primal, but what exactly is it? Is growling mandatory? We discuss exactly what primal encompasses and how to add it to your scenes. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order - [Auralism - Episode 108](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/auralism-episode-108/) - Auralism basically means you are aroused by sound. But how this looks though can vary from person to person. For some it's the sounds their partner makes, for others it could be certain musical instruments, and for others it could be ASMR sounds. Dara, and a few friends, share how certain sounds make them feel - [ABDL - Episode 109](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/abdl-episode-109/) - What exactly is ABDL? Why is it so stigmatized? Why do some people love it? You may find yourself surprised at some of the answers. Keep an open mind and you may just change your mind about this controversial kink. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your - [More Reddit Advice - Episode 110](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/more-reddit-advice-episode-110/) - It's time once again to go through r/BDSMAdvice and answer some of the questions posed. Warning, we may get a bit ranty because the frustration level is high. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order and - [Things That Make Us Angry - Episode 111](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/things-that-make-us-angry-episode-111/) - Every time Rara goes on social media, she runs across posts that make her crazy. She tells Dara all about it so they can rant together. This time the listeners get to rant with us because we dedicated an entire episode to all the things that make us angry. Listen and let us know if - [To Come Out as Kinky or Not - Episode 112](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/to-come-out-as-kinky-or-not-episode-112/) - One of the hardest decisions to make is whether to be public or private about your kinky life. How will your family and friends react? Could your job be at risk? There are so many factors to consider and there is no right or wrong answer. Rara is completely out as poly and kinky while - [Kink Across Different Generations - Episode 113](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/kink-across-different-generations-episode-113/) - Dara and Rara like to tease each other because as a Millenial and Gen X they don't always agree on stuff. This inspired us to bring in other generations to discuss their views on kink. We bring in John Brownstone from LovingBDSM to represent the Boomers and the oft-mentioned Lulu from Tik Tok to represent - [Dungeon Tales - Episode 114](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/dungeon-tales-episode-114/) - In this episode, pseudo-siblings Rara and Dara discover a magical place called The Dungeon where they meet their kinkster friends who help them in fulfilling their kinky quests. Join them as their share stories from their latest adventures. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com - [Religion and Kink - Episode 115](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/religion-and-kink-episode-115/) - Religion and kink seem to have great difficulty in co-existing. We bring in Phrygian Monk, a kink educator and pastor's child, to discuss why it appears so challenging. We also share ideas of religious play for those who may wish to be explore. Where you can find Phrygian Monk TikTok - @phrygian_monk Twitter - @phyrgianmonk - [Littles and Middles - Episode 116](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/littles-and-middles-episode-116/) - Littles get a lot of attention but what about middles? They tend to get overlooked a lot. They do exist though. What exactly is the difference between the two? Dara is a little and Rara is a middle. In this episode we give you a glimpse into our little and middle head space. And be - [BDSM Romance Part 1 - Episode 117](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bdsm-romance-part-1-episode-117/) - Ever since 50 Shades of Grey, BDSM romance has gained in popularity. These books put into words a fantasy that many people have. But how real are these books? How do authors make sure that their books, though set in a fictional world, stay true to the tenants of BDSM? We speak with several authors - [BDSM Romance Part 2 - Episode 118](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bdsm-romance-part-2-episode-118/) - We continue our discussion about BDSM Romance with two more amazing authors as we talk about how they were inspired, how they research kink and more. In this episode we speak with Golden Angel and Nikki Rome. You can find our guests at - https://www.goldenangelromance.com/ https://nikkirome.com/ Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code - [Kink: The Documentary - Episode 119](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/kink-the-documentary-episode-119/) - We watched and reviewed Kink which is a 2013 American documentary film produced by James Franco about the BDSM website Kink.com. It's a fascinating look into arguably the country's most successful fetish porn company. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Leatheretc.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order - [Is BDSM Considered a Lifestyle - Episode 120](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/is-bdsm-considered-a-lifestyle-episode-120/) - Some people call it kink. Some people call it BDSM. Others call it a Lifestyle. What is the difference between these terms? Are there requirements to be in the lifestyle vs a kinkster? Are kink and bdsm different things? This was recently a heated discussion on social media and we thought it was an important - [What is Hucow? - Episode 121](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/what-is-hucow-episode-121/) - One might think that HuCow (a combination of human and cow) is an extremely niche fetish but is much more popular than you'd imagine. There are porn sites dedicated to the subject, subreddits, even stores that sell hucow merchandise. What exactly is hucow and why are so many people interested in it. We answer these - [The Gorean Lifestyle - Episode 122](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-gorean-lifestyle-episode-122/) - You may have heard about Gorean or Gor, but what is it exactly? Gorean refers to a kink lifestyle that originated in the novels of science fiction writer John Norman. It tends to follow a Master/slave structure and is often more of a TPE type of dynamic. The books themselves have faced criticism because of - [Aging in Kink - Episode 123](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/aging-in-kink-episode-123/) - People always talk about aging gracefully. Well Rara refuses to age and is going down kicking and screaming. Dara is about to turn the F word (40) and she isn't happy about it either. We aren't as flexible as we used to be and we may need more recovery time, but getting older isn't stopping - [The Fun of Roleplay - Episode 124](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-fun-of-roleplay-episode-124/) - Kinksters are very creative folks. They are often using their imagination to construct elaborate scenes that challenge their minds and their bodies. One of the ways you can spice up your scenes is to roleplay particular scenes or fantasies. In this episode, Rara and Dara brainstorm different roleplay scenarios to help you spice up your - [We Answer More Reddit Questions - Episode 125](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/we-answer-more-reddit-questions-episode-125/) - We always have so much fun answering questions from Reddit and this time was no exception. Plus we wanted to showcase our own subreddit r/BDSM_AITA and encourage everyone to sign up and share their stories. Join us for our usual shenanigans and some great advice. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK - [The Importance of Being an Ethical Kink Educator - Episode 126](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-importance-of-being-an-ethical-kink-educator-episode-126/) - Recently we have become distressed at some of the unethical behavior of people who claim to be educators. We see it on social media and in person and their misinformation and misconduct can often have disastrous results. In this episode we talk about the importance of being an ethical educator and what exactly being an - [The Perspective of Male Submissives - Episode 127](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-perspective-of-male-submissives-episode-127/) - There are misconceptions and misunderstandings about men who prefer to be submissive. Even in modern times, male submission goes against societal norms. We interviewed several men about their experience as a submissive - the stereotypes they come up against and what they are doing to combat those assumptions. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com - [Being Neurodivergent and Kinky - Episode 128](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/being-neurodivergent-and-kinky-episode-128/) - Kink draws in many neurodiverse people. Why do they see these kink spaces as a safe haven? How do neurotypical folx create a welcoming place for ND folks? We bring in Lord Allen a disability-centered kink educator and one of the hosts of The Kinky Tavern, to answer these questions and more. You can find - [Boundaries vs Limits vs Rules - Episode 129](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/boundaries-vs-limits-vs-rules-episode-129/) - The concept of boundaries vs limits vs rules has become a hot button topic recently. Within kink we tend to use the terms interchangeably but is that right? And how do you set boundaries within D/s? We discuss all this and more. Don't forget you have a limited time to buy the Kink Bundle, a - [What is Topping From the Bottom - Episode 130](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/what-is-topping-from-the-bottom-episode-130/) - Topping from the bottom is something that is feared by many kinksters. Dominants don't want to deal with it and submissives are afraid of being accused of doing it. But what is it really? Is it something that actually happens or just something toxic Dominants use as a tool to manipulate? We share our opinions - [Our Rambling Minds - Episode 131](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/our-rambling-minds-episode-131/) - We intended to talk about how kink can be expensive, but we ended up mostly rambling on what is happening in our lives right now. We do touch briefly on the subject, but it's mostly us just being, well us. So buckle up because it's definitely a bumpy ride of silliness. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com - [Dara's Birthday Episode Part 1 - Episode 132](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/daras-birthday-episode-part-1-episode-132/) - It's time to celebrate Dara's birthday and for her gift this year she wanted to do a kinky book club with her favorite genre - Fantasy. Join her and some friends as they discuss and share their thoughts on some amazing books. First up is Kiss of Shadows by Laurel K Hamilton, A Lady of - [Dara's Birthday Episode Part 2 - Episode 133](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/daras-birthday-episode-part-2-episode-133/) - The celebration for Dara's birthday continues. In this episode Dara and friends discuss - Sex Wizards by Alethea Faust From Russia with Blood by Vivian Murdoch Wizards First Rule by Terry Goodkind Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% - [It's Our Birthday Party Episode - Episode 134](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/its-our-birthday-party-episode-episode-134/) - Join us as we share all the stories and memories from our very Pink birthday party at our local dungeon. We had an amazing time and both of us celebrated our birthdays with a special scene appropriate for our unique personalities. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on - [The People in Our Kinky Neighborhood- Part 1](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-people-in-our-kinky-neighborhood-part-1/) - For Rara's birthday episode, she invited the people she talks about to come on and share their thoughts and feelings about being mentioned on the podcast. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for - [More People in Our Kinky Neighborhood - Episode 136](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/more-people-in-our-kinky-neighborhood-episode-136/) - We talk with more folks in our kinky neighborhood and discuss what it's like to be featured in the podcast. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink - [Brats and SAMs - Episode 137](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/brats-and-sams-episode-137/) - The labels Brats and SAMs are often used interchangeably. But are they the same thing or actually different? Listen as we debate this issue. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to - [FemDom vs Female Dominant - Episode 138](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/femdom-vs-female-dominant-episode-138/) - A female Dominant is a woman who takes the dominant role in a BDSM relationship. FemDom stands for female domination. So are these terms just different ways of saying the same thing? Or do they mean different types of relationships? What about Dominatrix? In this episode, we debate the differences and similarities of these labels. - [Interrogation Scenes - Episode 139](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/interrogation-scenes-episode-139/) - Interrogation scenes are a classic roleplay scenario in BDSM. They are an exciting way to reinforce a power dynamic or just learn more about your partner. In this episode, we discuss how to set up an interrogation scene, the negotiations process, and ideas for some scenes. - [Rara's Latest Kerfuffles - Episode 140](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/raras-latest-kerfuffles-episode-140/) - Rara tries to stay out of trouble, but sometimes it's just too difficult. Join us as we talk about what has been going on that she has pulled out her soapbox multiple times. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save - [13 Non Sexual Reasons to Date a Kinkster - Episode 141](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/13-non-sexual-reasons-to-date-a-kinkster-episode-141/) - We discuss an article from PRIDE Magazine titled "13 Non-Sexual Reasons You Should Date A Kinkster" written by Zachary Zane and Andrew J. Stillman. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to - [Kink in the News - Episode 142](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/kink-in-the-news-episode-142/) - This episode is the start of a new series - Kink in the News. We have found a few articles about kink that have appeared in newspapers from different countries. We discuss these articles and how they portray kink to the masses. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% - [What We Are Thankful For 2023 - Episode 143](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/what-we-are-thankful-for-2023-episode-143/) - It's time to once again express our gratitude for the things that have brought us happiness this year. Join us for an episode of thankfulness and laughter. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast - [Smut Lovers Conference Part 1 - Episode 144](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/smut-lovers-conference-part-1-episode-144/) - Smut romance is huge and in fact is a gateway into kink for many readers. Thus the Smut Lovers Conference was created. This event is the largest educational event for romance authors and readers, featuring workshops, panels and demonstrations designed to educate about kink and bdsm. Rara was a presenter at the 2023 conference and - [Smut Lovers Conference Part 2 - Episode 145](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/smut-lovers-conference-part-2-episode-145/) - We continue with interviewing authors who want to level up their kink and smut knowledge by attending the Smut Lovers Conference. In this episode we talk with Pepper North Christian Pan Lara G. Elmore Mo Flames Tymber Dalton And Nikki Rome Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on - [Discovering Our Kinky Selves - Episode 146](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/discovering-our-kinky-selves-episode-146/) - We answered questions from Kink Academy's book "365 Days of Kink." Join us as we learn more about ourselves and each other. We invite you to also answer the questions and go on your own kinky self-discovery. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use - [Our New Year's Resolutions - Episode 147](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/our-new-years-resolutions-episode-147/) - Hard to believe but 2023 has come to an end. What an amazing year! We look back on last year's resolutions and see how many pink checkmarks we got and then set some fantastic new ones for 2024. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com - [Spice Up Your Kink With Humor - Episode 148](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/spice-up-your-kink-with-humor-episode-148/) - We talk about how adding laughter can make BDSM relationships more fun. We'll share stories and tips, and you'll learn how to balance humor and intimacy in your own relationships. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your - [We Answer More Reddit Posts - Episode 149](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/we-answer-more-reddit-posts-episode-149/) - In this episode, we're delving into posts from BDSM_AITA (Am I the Asshole) and BDSMAdvice on Reddit. We'll be answering questions, sharing insights, and navigating the intriguing discussions. Join us for a fun dive into Reddit. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code - [BDSM and Feminism: Exploring Choices - Episode 150](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bdsm-and-feminism-exploring-choices-episode-150/) - We delve into the nuanced intersection of BDSM and feminism. We discuss whether the choices people make in BDSM can be considered feminist and explore ideas about power, consent, and personal agency. We also look into the complexities of femmes choosing to submit to men, examining whether such dynamics contradict or align with feminist principles. - [It's All About The Booty - Episode 151](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/its-all-about-the-booty-episode-151/) - Delve into a subject often shrouded in taboo - Anal Play. Join us for a candid and informative conversation, as we endeavor to dismantle societal barriers and cultivate a more nuanced understanding of this intimate topic. Thank you to our sponsor KindD, one of the most famous kink, BDSM and fetish dating apps. Go to - [Healing From Toxic Relationships - Episode 152](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/healing-from-toxic-relationships-episode-152/) - In this episode, we discuss how to heal after a toxic romantic relationship. We cover important steps like recognizing toxicity, building positive connections, and applying lessons for healthier future relationships. We share insights on self-compassion, setting realistic expectations, and the empowering journey of creating a strong and fulfilling life after leaving a toxic relationship. Thank - [Movie Review of Professor Marston - Episode 153](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/movie-review-of-professor-marston-episode-153/) - In this episode, we take a deep dive into the movie "Professor Marston and the Wonder Women." It's all about the life of psychologist William Moulton Marston and his unique relationship with his wife Elizabeth Holloway Marston and their mistress Olive Byrne. We talk about how their unusual love story inspired Marston to create the - [Reflecting on Three Years Part 1 - Episode 154](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/reflecting-on-three-years-part-1-episode-154/) - Welcome to the first part of our anniversary special. We did a deep dive into the heart of our podcast's impact on our listeners. We invited some of our listeners to share their stories, reflections, and insights on how our conversations have touched their lives. From moments of laughter to moments of introspection, we'll explore - [Reflecting on Three Years Part 2 - Episode 155](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/reflecting-on-three-years-part-2-episode-155/) - In Part 2 of our anniversary celebration, we continue to delve into the stories and reflections of our incredible listeners. Join us as we explore even more deeply the impact our podcast has had on your lives. From unexpected discoveries to life-changing moments, we uncover the power of community and connection through our shared conversations. - [Our Anniversary Wrap-Up - Episode 156](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/our-anniversary-wrap-up-episode-156/) - In the final episode of our anniversary series, Part 3, we'll be sharing more of the stories that have touched our hearts from our listeners. Plus, we'll also open up about how creating this podcast has impacted us personally. Join us for a heartfelt conclusion to our anniversary celebration! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - - [Our Kink Convention Journey - Episode 157](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/our-kink-convention-journey-episode-157/) - Join us on a wild journey as we explore the world of kink at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire. From meeting old friends to making new ones, we'll share all the exciting moments. We'll talk about what we learned, how we grew, and the fun we had. Get ready for an adventure where we push boundaries - [Winter Fire: Transformations & Reflections - Episode 158](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/winter-fire-transformations-reflections-episode-158/) - Welcome back to our journey at the kink convention! In this episode, Rara dives into how the classes she took and the scenes she tried changed her. Join us as she talks about her personal growth and new insights. Meanwhile, Dara shares the highs and lows she experienced, giving us a glimpse into the rollercoaster - [Locked and Loaded - Episode 159](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/locked-and-loaded-episode-159/) - In this episode, we dive into the world of chastity in BDSM. Join us as we explore how people in power exchange relationships use chastity to control desires and deepen intimacy. From the devices they use to the rules they follow, we'll uncover the ins and outs of this intriguing practice. Whether you're curious about - [Exploring "Unf#ck Your Kink" - Episode 160](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/exploring-unfck-your-kink-episode-160/) - Join us for a deep dive into Dr. Faith G. Harper's provocative book, "Unf#ck Your Kink." We'll dissect its insights, debunk myths, and explore the science behind human desire. From BDSM to fetishes, we'll review Dr. Harper's approach to embracing sexual exploration shamelessly. Tune in as we discuss the book's impact, empowering listeners to unfuck - [Utilizing Behavior Modification in D/s - Episode 161](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/utilizing-behavior-modification-in-d-s-episode-161/) - Join us as we uncover the intricacies of what behavior modification entails, its underlying principles, and how it functions within the dynamics of BDSM. Discover practical tips and insights on how to effectively utilize behavior modification techniques to enhance your BDSM experiences and foster a deeper connection with your partner. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - [The Tradwife Phenomenon - Episode 162](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-tradwife-phenomenon-episode-162/) - In this episode, we explore the resurgence of the 'Tradwife' lifestyle, where women embrace traditional roles in marriage and family. We'll discuss why it's gaining popularity, its controversies, and how it intersects with modern life. Join us for a thoughtful conversation on tradition and modernity. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK - [The Return of Reddit - Episode 163](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-return-of-reddit-episode-163/) - Dive into the chaotic depths of Reddit once more as we tackle the internet's ultimate jungle gym. Strap in for a rollercoaster ride of laughter, insight, and maybe even a few existential crises along the way! Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code - [Understanding Identity and Attraction - Episode 164](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/understanding-identity-and-attraction-episode-164/) - We delve into the intricacies of sapiosexuality and demisexuality, two often misunderstood sexual orientations. Join us as we discuss the complexities of attraction beyond the physical and explore the depths of emotional and intellectual connections. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK - [Risqué Business: Japan - Episode 165](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/risque-business-japan-episode-165/) - Join us as we discuss Risqué Business: Japan, a show on Netflix. The show explores Tokyo's adult entertainment scene, from bustling streets to hidden alleys. In this episode we review the show and discuss how Japan and the United States view sex and porn, offering insights into cultural differences. Whether you're a fan or just - [We Tried Splitting Up - Episode 166](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/we-tried-splitting-up-episode-166/) - Get ready for a wild ride as Rara and Dara ditch the buddy system and go solo! Listen to our misadventures as we ventured off to different events. It's a rollercoaster of mishaps, surprises, and side-splitting stories you won't want to miss! - [Building Your Perfect BDSM Scene - Episode 167](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/building-your-perfect-bdsm-scene-episode-167/) - In this episode, we explore how to create a BDSM scene. Whether you are new or a seasoned kinkster, we got you covered with valuable tips to help you create unforgettable moments. Tune in to discover the essential elements that go into planning and executing a fulfilling BDSM scene. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - - [Small But Mighty - Episode 168](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/small-but-mighty-episode-168/) - In this episode, we explore the dynamics of BDSM relationships where the Dominant/Top is physically smaller than the Submissive/Bottom. We share insights on maintaining authority, building trust, and challenging societal norms. Learn practical tips for reinforcing roles, effective communication, and thriving in these unique dynamics. Tune in to discover how size doesn’t dictate power in - [BDSM as a Path to Self-Care - Episode 169](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/bdsm-as-a-path-to-self-care-episode-169/) - In this episode, we explore the idea of BDSM as a unique form of self-care. Discover how kink can help center you, manage stress, and embrace your true self. We'll delve into the therapeutic benefits of using BDSM to achieve emotional healing, personal empowerment, and overall well-being. Join us for an enlightening conversation on how - [Protect Your Photos: Cybersecurity Tips for Safe Sharing - Episode 170](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/protect-your-photos-cybersecurity-tips-for-safe-sharing-episode-170/) - We explore cybersecurity in the digital age with a focus on sharing personal photos. Our expert guest shares essential tips for safely storing, sharing, and protecting your images online. Learn about best practices for storing, sharing, and protecting your images, understand the potential risks, and discover practical steps to enhance your digital security. Visit us - [Utilizing Mantras in D/s Dynamics](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/utilizing-mantras-in-d-s-dynamics/) - We explore the role of mantras in D/s dynamics. Discover how these positive affirmations guide behavior, reinforce values, and foster growth. We'll share tips for creating effective mantras and real-life examples, highlighting their impact on D/s relationships. Whether you're experienced or new to the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights into using mantras to deepen - [In The News - Episode 172](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/in-the-news-episode-172/) - We return to one of our favorite series- In The News! We discuss recent articles that highlight current events impacting our community. Join us for some thoughtful discussion, humorous stories, and a few angry rants. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links - [Why "True Submissive" is Problematic - Episode 173](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/why-true-submissive-is-problematic-episode-173/) - In this episode, we explore why the term "true submissive" is problematic. We discuss the misunderstandings it creates and why it's important to recognize and respect different ways people express submission. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on inclusivity and acceptance in BDSM. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save - [Common Mistakes to Avoid - Episode 174](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/common-mistakes-to-avoid-episode-174/) - BDSM is gaining in popularity. More people are exploring these practices as a way to deepen intimacy, enhance trust, and spice up their relationships. It's a vast and diverse community with a lot to offer, but jumping in without the right knowledge can lead to mistakes that range from awkward to downright dangerous. In this - [A Fiery Book Review - Episode 175](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/a-fiery-book-review-episode-175/) - In this heated episode, we dive deep into a book that just didn't work for us. With our usual opinionated attitudes, we dissect the book's misconceptions, challenge its faulty assumptions, and provide our own expert insights. Buckle up for an episode filled with sharp wit, strong opinions, and a whole lot of sass. Visit us - [Pitfalls of Comparing BDSM and Vanilla Lifestyles - Episode 176](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/pitfalls-of-comparing-bdsm-and-vanilla-lifestyles-episode-176/) - We dive into the comparisons between BDSM and vanilla lifestyles, busting myths and challenging assumptions of superiority. Join us for an enlightening discussion that celebrates diversity, dispels misconceptions, and champions the universal principles of healthy relationships. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a - [Keeping Your Kink Life Private - Episode 177](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/keeping-your-kink-life-private-episode-177/) - Discover essential strategies for safeguarding your D/s dynamic and kinky lifestyle. Join us as we explore the importance of privacy, trust, and discretion, and learn practical tips to maintain your personal and professional reputations while deepening intimacy and avoiding potential risks. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on - [Resolving Conflict in D/s Relationships - Episode 178](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/resolving-conflict-in-d-s-relationships-episode-178/) - We delve into the complexities of resolving conflicts within D/s relationships. Discover practical strategies for effective communication, maintaining respect and consent, and navigating power dynamics. Learn how to negotiate solutions and compromises, seek external support, and rebuild trust after conflicts. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your - [Understanding Cuckolding and Cuckqueaning - Episode 179](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/understanding-cuckolding-and-cuckqueaning-episode-179/) - We dive into the fascinating and often misunderstood dynamics of cuckolding and cuckqueaning. Whether you're curious about these kinks or looking to explore them within your relationship, we'll break down the essentials—from the emotional aspects to the power dynamics involved. Join us as we discuss the motivations, common misconceptions, and ways to navigate these experiences - [Healing After Kink Goes Wrong - Episode 180](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/healing-after-kink-goes-wrong-episode-180/) - In this episode, we sit down with AJ Renard, a therapist who is also a kinkster, to explore the complexities of healing from trauma caused by toxic kink relationships or scenes that went wrong. We delve into practical strategies for moving past these experiences and discuss the important role that partners can play in supporting - [Tickle Me Kinky - Episode 181](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/tickle-me-kinky-episode-181/) - We’re getting under your skin—literally—with a deep dive into the kinky world of tickling in BDSM. We’ll explore how a little poke and prod can turn into serious play, debunk some tickling myths, and share tips on getting the most laughs (and squirms) out of your scenes. Whether you’re a tickling tease or just curious, - [Returning to Reddit's Kink Jungle - Episode 182](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/returning-to-reddits-kink-jungle-episode-182/) - Guess what? We’re back answering Reddit’s most outrageous kink questions! From puzzling to infuriating, we’re diving into a new batch of queries from the kink community. Whether you’re looking for solid advice or just want to laugh at some of the wildest questions out there, this episode has you covered. Buckle up and get ready - [Body Positivity and Birthday Vibes - Episode 183](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/body-positivity-and-birthday-vibes-episode-183/) - In this special birthday episode, we're celebrating not just Dara's big day, but also the beauty of body positivity! Dara chose this theme as her birthday episode because, for her, birthdays are a time to embrace and honor every part of who she is—inside and out. Join us as we dive into the importance of - [tOuch Kink - The Film - Episode 184](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/touch-kink-the-film-episode-184/) - We sit down with the director and producer of tOuch Kink, a documentary that delves into the secretive world of kink. We'll discuss the challenges and rewards of capturing intimate and powerful stories on film, the cultural impact of bringing kink to the mainstream, and what it takes to tell these stories authentically. Whether you're - [Tech and BDSM in the Digital Kink World - Episode 185](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/tech-and-bdsm-in-the-digital-kink-world-episode-185/) - For her birthday, Rara chose a topic close to her heart: technology! In this episode, Rara and Dara dive into the fascinating world of how technology is changing the BDSM community. From apps that help you track consent to online platforms for connecting with fellow kinksters, they explore the ways digital tools are making kink - [Our Pink Birthday Bash - Episode 186](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/our-pink-birthday-bash-episode-186/) - In this episode, we’re spilling all the juicy details from our epic 50 Shades of Pink birthday bash at the dungeon! From the unforgettable birthday scenes to the hilarious moments that had us cracking up all night, we’re taking you behind the scenes of our kinky celebration. Join us as we relive the fun, the - [Navigating Pitfalls in D/s Relationships - Episode 187](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/navigating-pitfalls-in-d-s-relationships-episode-187/) - In this episode we’re focusing on the pitfalls that can arise in D/s relationships. From communication breakdowns and trust issues to external pressures, power imbalances, and even abuse, we’re digging into the common challenges that many face. But don’t worry, we’re not just identifying the problems—we’re offering practical solutions to overcome them. Tune in as - [Managing Jealousy - Episode 188](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/managing-jealousy-episode-188/) - In this episode of the Pink Kink Podcast, we tackle the challenges of jealousy and insecurity in BDSM relationships. These emotions are common and can affect even the strongest dynamics, but learning to manage them is essential for the well-being of everyone involved. We’ll explore practical strategies to address these feelings before they become destructive, - [The Impact of Social Media on BDSM Education - Episode 189](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/the-impact-of-social-media-on-bdsm-education-episode-189/) - In this episode, we dive into the impact of social media on BDSM education. We explore how platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter are shaping perceptions of kink and BDSM, influencing how people learn and practice. We discuss why this education is so important, breaking down both the positive and negative aspects. While social media - [Navigating D/s Dynamics While Raising Kids - Episode 190](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/navigating-d-s-dynamics-while-raising-kids-episode-190/) - In this episode, we talk about the challenges of managing a D/s relationship while raising kids. We’ll cover the struggles of finding time, keeping privacy, and handling the emotional and mental stress of both parenting and the D/s dynamic. You’ll also get tips on how to keep power exchanges subtle, like using secret signals, daily - [Why Politics Matter in Kink - Episode 191](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/why-politics-matter-in-kink-episode-191/) - With the upcoming election, we thought it was the perfect time to talk about why politics matter to the kink community. In this episode, we dive into how laws and social views impact kink, from SESTA/FOSTA to LGBTQ+ rights, breaking down how policies shape access to safe spaces, kink education, and the freedom to explore - [Submission Without A Partner - Episode 192](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/episode/submission-without-a-partner-episode-192/) - We explore the world of solo BDSM submission and how to embrace your submissive side, even without a dominant partner. We’ll guide you through creating personal rituals, setting self-imposed rules, and using symbolic objects to deepen your connection to submission. Discover ways to stay motivated, maintain consistency, and overcome common challenges like isolation or self-judgment. ## Categories - [Blog](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/category/blog/) ## Podcast Show - [Pink Kink](https://pinkkinkpodcast.com/podcast-show/pink-kink/) - Welcome to Pink Kink, the podcast that takes you deep into the fascinating world of kink. Join Princess Rara and Electro_Khaleesi as they bust myths and clear up misconceptions with their combined 30+ years of experience. Whether you’re new to kink or a seasoned pro, our hosts will help you level up your knowledge with their personal stories and expert insights. Get ready to learn, grow, and laugh. Tune in to Pink Kink and level up your kink knowledge!