Episode 38 – YKINMKATOK
Your kink is not my kink and that’s okay. It’s the principal we in the kink community are supposed to live by. But do we actually or do we found ourselves judging instead? And...
Category: Opinion
Episode 37 – Gatekeeping in Kink
Gatekeeping in kink is defined as “restricting or limiting access to the lifestyle or community or invalidating someone’s actions or feelings, usually based on personal bias and prejudice.” An example would be saying you...
Episode 34 – Dating While Kinky
We get so many questions about trying to date when you are kinky so we decided to just do an episode about it. We talk about the best way to begin the process of...
Episode 31 – The Problem with Labels
Throughout our lives, people attach labels to us, and those labels reflect and affect how others think about our identities as well as how we think about ourselves. That said, we’ve gotten in the...
Episode 16 – The Good, The Bad and The Ugly – Fictional Portrayals of BDSM
There is a lot of disagreement about how fiction portrays BDSM. Fifty Shades is one of the most talked about fictional portrayals and probably the most controversial. Some people recommend watching the movie Secretary...
Episode 5 – FetLife: Like Facebook, but Run by Kinksters
If you are into kink, you’ve probably heard about FetLife. They call themselves the Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community. Like Facebook, but run by kinksters like you and me. Some...